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Supporting each other through bereavement

Bereavement is a universal experience that often feels isolating. At Hospice in the Weald, we aim to create a community where grief is openly discussed and compassionately supported, whether at home, in the workplace, or among friends. Here, we share some ways you can provide support when someone is grieving.

Open communication and compassion

Creating a safe space for open conversations is one of the most supportive things you can do. A simple question like, “How are you feeling today?” can encourage someone to share their emotions. Respect their boundaries – ask how much they want others to know and what they feel comfortable discussing. If you’re unsure what to say, keep it simple: “I’m thinking of you” or “What can I do to help?” Avoid comparing their experience to your own, as grief is deeply personal. Small gestures of kindness and empathy can make a big difference.

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Flexibility and practical support

Understanding workplace policies on bereavement and compassionate leave is vital. Consult HR or senior managers if needed to provide clear guidance to those navigating grief. For managers, discussing leave options and maintaining regular communication helps reassure the grieving person of their job security and ongoing support. Returning to work can be overwhelming. Flexible arrangements like phased returns, remote work, or adjusted schedules can ease the transition and allow the person to balance personal responsibilities with work.

Respecting individual and cultural needs

Grief affects everyone differently, and the process is highly individual. Some people may find comfort in talking about their loved one, sharing memories, or marking anniversaries. Others may prefer privacy, and their preferences should be respected. Cultural and religious beliefs often shape how people grieve, including specific rituals, mourning periods, or practices. Open communication ensures that their needs are understood and honoured.

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Understanding grief's impact

Grief is not a linear process. Emotions like sadness, anger, shock, and acceptance may all occur at different times – or even in one day. Be patient and avoid setting expectations for how someone “should” grieve. Recognising the ongoing nature of grief is crucial. Watch for signs of complicated grief, like prolonged depression or withdrawal, which may require professional support.

Creating a supportive community

Supporting someone through grief is about being present, empathetic, and practical. By fostering open communication, respecting individuality, and offering flexibility, we can build a compassionate community where no one feels alone in their loss. For more guidance or resources, please contact Hospice in the Weald. Together, we can ensure our community remains a place of comfort and support during times of bereavement.

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